for starters i've never cut a head in my life, but that doesn't mean i don't have an opinion on the matter
not knowing to any degree how flat was good enough, i'd ere on the side of caution and make it very bloody flat.
making things very flat is not trivial, its difficult to do so when clamping pressures are involved....how are you going to hold it such that the clamping forces don't temporarily change its shape? I'd scrape it, be done in a hour and have it flatter than any process mentioned. Maybe an hour's too long, maybe the other ways mention are quicker, maybe the flatness i'd get with scraping is overkill.....i dont know, but (I think like the OP) i'm not doing it for a living, i don't have special set ups and would be approaching this as a one-of specialty job that had to be perfect and couldn't risk the part.
Just an idea from a guy who's never fly cut a head

Is it that crazy?