I find it interesting that the points that make the ends of the bar parallel (Airy), and the points that give the bar its maximum length (Bessel) are named- but the support point which provide the minimal deflection from gravity are not.
If I need to support a straight edge and measure off of it I am measuring off the bottom or the top, not the ends. It is the minimal deflection from gravity that I need---but it has no short name to remember and look up.
That they are all close is very helpful. From Airy to minimal deflection, if measuring in from one side, the difference is .0119 x the length, so it is not something to loose sleep over.
You do want to pay attention to the nodes of free vibration as mentioned in "other support points of interest". Its hard to get a good measurement from something "ringing like a bell" or picking up machine vibrations.
As to the hinging and its location.
I am sure there are others better able to answer than I- but I do have some practical observations.
If you hinge a straight edge on clean granite, and then do it on a very uniform layer of light bluing, the results are very similar. Put the same straight edge so one end is on bluing and the other is not- or it is on uneven bluing, and the hinging will be very different. No suprise, as the friction between the work and the granite is very different due to the bluing and its thickness. The other factors to pay attention to are surface area and weight distribution over that area. Suppose you are scraping all three sides of a cast iron triangle with angles of 30, 60, and 90 degrees. No two of the sides will hinge the same.