Hi Ox:
Interesting point of view...obviously somewhat different from mine.
The field I work in is mostly product development, and my customers come to me to get their projects sorted out as much as they do to get machined pieces from me.
I don't know enough about the OP to comment on how his business model works...I know he has a Haas CM-1 in his garage, recently bought and did quality time in the medical device domain as an employee before that.
So far as I know, his forte, like mine is miniature and micro miniature machining, mostly on complex parts.
But I've come to realize that the kind of customers I attract, are really happy to have me working so intimately with them.
A part of that is that I have to know what's going on, including where they are with their projects and what they are up against.
So I ask, and so far, no one worthwhile has gotten offended.
This is very different from the relationship I have with the customers who just want me to make a thousand parts to print...so I get where you're coming from if that's the kind of customers and relationships you're talking about.
Sooner or later these customers all go to better equipped shops and I'm happy to let them go.
I even keep a list of guys to recommend and everyone stays happy.
Even though many would be horrified that I'm letting opportunities go, I've had zero trouble keeping as busy as I want to be, despite my "bad business skills".
You may well have totally different customers with totally different needs compared to mine.
If that is so, you may well be right...it would be an affront to them to ask such impertinent questions, as "how important is your deadline...REALLY?"
So I do get where you're coming from...our OP will have to ask and answer the question "are my customers like Marcus's customers or are they like Ox's customers"
I will happily leave that up to him.
Cheers
Marcus
www.implant-mechanix.com
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