It really is helpful if you give us the parameters that are you are using
RIGHT NOW that aren't working. And the things you've tried that aren't
working.
No point in me or anybody else typing out a response and giving feeds and
speeds if its the same thing you are already doing that isn't working. Your
idea of "Not Working" might be the best you can get.
High depth, low feed. I mean LOW!!!! Already said, try and get your nose in
there, or at least really really close. 1.25" square to round is a .258ish DOC.
Getting the nose in there a bit stabilizes everything.
The dry interrupted cut is also a real thing.. Carbide can take heat.. It can
take a LOT OF HEAT.. What it can't take is a lot of rapid thermal cycling. Say
you are running 1000rpms, you are heating and cooling that insert 4000 times a
minute.. Carbide does not like that, it will take it for a while... And then
it won't.
I would use one tool with maybe a .200 to .230 DOC, DRY, and maybe .003 a rev,
maybe less. And then go to your rougher, and then finisher, which would be just
like turning round bar.