Locally, Ufer grounds are becoming expected. When I was getting the electrical permits for my shop (2009), I had to point out to the county planning department that a pole building with a fully insulated slab (not just perimeter) would not be a satisfactory Ufer ground. Fortunately, they have not yet forgotten that the NEC includes driven ground electrodes as well.
There are several potential problems with your gate foundation. The first is that there's a minimum size requirement for a Ufer ground ("concrete encased electrode" in NEC-speak). The second (which may be a deal-breaker, or may be irrelevant, at the whim of your electrical inspector) is that there are specific requirements for how the copper wire is bonded to the rebar and this detail (locally) must be inspected
before the concrete is poured.
As far as I have read, 20' of 1/2" rebar is acceptable- I do have photos of the ground clamp set up.
Third, and most fundamental, a separate grounding electrode that's not bonded to the rest of your system is of limited value. It
must not be used for the operator return current, and it
must not be used as the effective safety ground. The commentary (2008 NEC) that accompanies Article 250.54 Auxiliary Grounding Electrodes reads in part
this will not be a return path for current or a safety ground
So, you're going to be running at least three wires to your gate operator to be compliant with the NEC. Line+neutral (120V) or line+line (240V) plus an equipment grounding conductor. And that equipment grounding conductor makes use of the gate foundation as a concrete-encased electrode irrelevant.
the operator manufacturer wants its , I don't know why- maybe as a static or lightning ground which would be why they want it close to the operator.
Added in edit: The gate foundation would make a fine lightning protection ground. But that's actually a really good reason
not to bond it to the powered equipment. A nearby lightning strike can establish a substantial voltage between remote, unbonded grounding electrodes. You don't want that feeding back through the equipment grounding conductor into your house/shop service.