I have neighbors that pump every year (!), every three years (because the pump owner says it should be so)... At a cost over about $550. To me that's a bit like the oil change places saying change the oil every 3000 miles, and for an extra charge we can add "slick 50".
I pump mine MAYBE every 15 years, and never if it doesn't need it. But... I open all three tank lids every few years, probe the raft on top, check the baffles (I don't have filters), check the pump chamber and try to determine the bottom sludge. 12 years since the last pumping... (pump failure from frayed wires). Mine is fine... but your mileage will vary.
If you want your system to last, you have to take care of it. Avoid bleach, fats, garbage disposals, "the wrong" dishwasher and washing detergents, washing out paint brushes and all the nasty chemicals so easy to pour down the sink or toilet that will kill bacteria. Of course, it's a lot easier if there are only two of you in the house. And.. there the unmentionables - female hygiene products - polyester does not digest, and is great at blocking filters, jambing pumps and worst case, blocking drain fields.
I'm no pro in this field, but I have been into a few dozen septic systems. Most were "abused" - treated more like a landfill. But one was a 40 year old gravity flow. It had never been pumped (the lid was paved over just after the house was built! , and was working fine.
I do not add Rid-x or any similar. I do add copper sulphate every year to keep tree roots in check (my field in in the forest). Will Rid-x help an abused system? I doubt it - you can kill that just as easy as you'll kill the bacteria supplied by your own body.