This seems to keep coming up to the surface.
First make sure you have a dress or trueable wheel. These have a thickness from 1/16 to 3/8 worth of diamond on them.
Plated wheels can not be trued, they are one layer of diamond thick and have to be indicated in.
Do not try to true one by outside methods and do not stick them,.
Dressable wheels have a distinct layer of green, copper, brown or black. Plated wheels are shiny silver colored. It's a chrome plate holding the one layer of diamonds.
So ass-u-ming a resin or metal bond wheel with depth.
Motorized dresser, brake unit, free spinning unit at an angle, even a OD grinder can be used. All sort of a grind away method.
What you really want to do is pull away the bond and let the diamonds fall away not having to deal with them.
Fanatics also want to leave a nice "bond tail" behind the exposed diamonds giving more support to the grain.
It will be trued when shipped, This is has to be done to remove the "skin' left from the pressing cycle.
Usually you can clock in very close to the mount it was on when trued after pressing. Note the this process is not nice on DTI tips and puts flats on them.
It still will not be true to the original dress or act like a trued on mount wheel but this helps a lot.
Moly sticks are sometimes used just like a dressing diamond, it is a slow and painful process. Normally only for touch up work and radius forming.
Popular in use with angle/radius dressers when that is what you have on hand.
It leaves a rather glazed wheel but you can stick it back open. This method attack the diamonds. Akin to watching paint dry or corn grow but does have it's uses.
All this but in fact it is so easy-peasy. Strangely there are shops who will bring me wheels to true up or dress angles into for them.
A past thread here and in it I point to a older thread with some pictures.
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https://www.practicalmachinist.com/vb/abrasive-machining/truing-resin-bond-diamond-wheels-161958/
Bob
PS..... no star wheels, and no single point diamonds.